Not Your Mother's
Size 10.0 oz|
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A detoxifying blend of Matcha Green Tea & Wild Apple Blossom, Not Your Mother's NATURALS NUTRIENT RICH BUTTER HAIR MASQUE enriches hair and scalp with antioxidants & nutrients for a deep clean.
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Rated 4.4 out of 5 stars
I just used this product yesterday and was skeptical bc I have thick hair and a lot of it. I am type 4a so most conditioning products do not work for me. This product was so thick, it was PERFECT. I washed and conditioned my hair and then applied this. I left it on for about an hour bc I got distracted (as always), but when I took my cap off my hair was like literal butter
Another disappointment. I really want to love this line and these products, but I don't. I tried this product out with the deal going on and after using it a few times over a period of a few weeks, my hair didn't feel genuinely better. It felt disgusting. I was reading the Ingredients list and I don't get how for something that is supposed to "repair" the first few MAIN ingredients are water,alcohol, and glycerin. It feels soft and shiny at first because that's just a coating leading you to believe it's working when it doesn't have the ingredients that actually help repair hair. Disappointed
Jan M from AL
I use this after coloring my hair, and I can comb through it easily, and it's very shiny. It's a heavy duty conditioner so I don't use every day, but after coloring it's wonderful.
E.D. from Delaware
Would not buy again due to the overpowering scent
thatdisneylover from Florida
I absolutely love this hair masque it's so great and smells heavenly you should definitely try it if you haven't.
Jenn from Michigan
I love this. It only takes 5 mins to do the job. If you have dry hair you're gonna LOVE
Anna from Ohio
It smells SOOO good and leaves my hair feeling so soft!
Dorothy from Florida
I use this maybe once a week and I love it. I have long, color treated hair prone to tangles. I rinse it out really well and only use it on days I shampoo- otherwise it can make my hair heavy or even oily. My hair turns out super soft and it's a breeze to brush out when wet.
Caroline from Boston
I've been using this for several years and loved it…up until my last order. I just received three of these and the product is completely changed; it used to be a thick masque but now has the texture of a thin conditioner, the smell is also completely different (its bad). The product is now useless for detangling/conditioning my 3C hair. Either the product has been completely reformulated since I last ordered or I got a fraudulent batch. Really disappoint.
Anna Banana from South Carolina
I love this product. I have used the first container that I purchased for over 3 months. I used it 2-3 times a week for the first month and now use it only once a week to for maintenance. I have since purchased this product twice more for friends when they complimented me on the softness of my hair. The scent is absolutely lovely. The amount of product in the container is excellent. I have long curly hair and a small amount of product can cover all of my hair which means the product lasts a long time.
Lalome from NYC
,y hair is type 4 (4b/4c), fine, high porosity. this product is lightweight with lots of SLIP, easy to detangle. used as a deep conditioner with heat for 30 mins, left hair so soft and moisturized, would re-purchase.
Alex L. from Baltimore, MD
This review is entirely based off of the smell, which was so strong and overwhelmingly floral it triggered a migraine from after whiff. I was hoping the matcha would give it a more grounded and earthy smell, but that was not the case. I can't speak to how well it works because I returned this product before using it.
Gracie from USA
I gave this product multiple chances but my gosh, it's awful. It is so greasy and sticky in my hair, even after rinsing MULTIPLE times. It leaves my hair with a film on it. It looks even dirtier after washing! I threw it out.
CP from FL
I keep using this to give it a chance but I think this is it. This stuff literally DOES NOT was out of your hair no matter how much you rinse it! It leaves you with heavy, greasy feeling hair. I have thick hair and it just weighs it down and makes it feel dirty.
Santa's Little Curly Helper from Florida
I saw all the hype for this product and I wanted to get it and love it, but I honestly didn't. The price was really great. I was recommended this product by someone in Ulta who had much more kinkier type 4 hair, and I figured if her hair liked it, so will my type 3a/3b curls. I liked the smell, the packaging. I put it on in the shower and I immediately got a odd slimy coated silk feeling, which at first I thought was a good thing. But once I rinsed it out, the feeling went away and it really did not do anything to my hair. I ended up returning the product. But again, a lot of people seem to love it. So give it a try, it's affordable. It just did not work for my low porosity hair.
Em from Michigan
Great smell and does a decent good of conditioning hair
alexis from upstate SC
my favorite ever!
SSmith202222 from Illinois
I used this mask after rinsing out the Naturals Aquatic Mint & Coastal Sea Holly Scalp conditioner. Lightly scented and creamy texture. However, there was no slip. I left the product in my hair for 15 minutes with heat. After rinsing, my hair felt minimal moisture. My hair did not feel soft and was tangled. I had to go in with another moisturizing deep conditioner.
Tay from Cleveland
I started using this once a week with my conditioner and it has done wonders for my dry/ frizzy waves! Love the consistency and scent and have noticed a huge difference.
Shelby from New Mexico
I got this for when I moved to a drier climate than what my hair is used to and I only wash one or two times a week now but when I do, I use this after shampoo instead of conditioner and it has done wonders for my hair. I'm normally oily and have fine hair but a lot of it. It doesn't leave it over conditioned where it looks and feels oily, and keeps my hair soft and smelling amazing for days. I'll be buying more as soon as I run out!
Bro from Orange County
Worked great for my hair. A lot of slip and easy to comb through to detangle. After rinsing my hair was soft and very moisturized.
Cerrious from FL
I just used this and I am a real 4c. I have been struggling with retaining moisture and detangling. This mask made detangling the easiest I've ever experienced and left my dry brittle hair moisturized. I didn't even have to use much. I will definitely purchase again and again!
Nicole T. from Denver, Colorado
This is one of the best products I've used for my hair. I've been bleaching and dyeing my hair for over 11 years, and pretty consistently, which has left it dry no matter what I do. My hair is super thick, curly & wavy, and frizzes out (Hermione Granger in 1st year style) everytime I wash it no matter what conditioner I use and how long I leave it on. This is the only product I've found so far that leaves my hair feeling light, soft, and defines my curls. It honestly seems to help my scalp feel less dry and itchy too (even though I know the brand doesn't recommend using it on the scalp). I shower everyday and I use this product 2-3 times a week with great results. Plus, it doesn't seem to make my hair colors fade any faster than normal (I currently have blue hair). Definitely would recommend to anyone who has trouble taming their thick, curly, dry hair.
ExperiencedCurly from KY
This USED TO be a 'Butter Masque' until they changed the formula this year to become even lighter than their regular conditioner! NYM, I will not forgive you for giving me the conditioner of my life for years only to replace the formula with this light, useless consistency that's didn't even 'condition' the hair! Still grieving the loss of what this product used to be as I shop for a replacement.
KLS from Texas
I've used this a couple of times now. I was hoping the result would change. It didn't. I used on my hair (thick, hip length, and wavy hair). I also used it on my daughters hair (thick, shoulder length and curly). Usually when using conditioners when you rinse it out, you feel the nourishment and softness the conditioner contributed. Not with this though. It almost feels like when you get out of swimming pool with a lot of chlorine in it and ring your hair out. It's not soft at all! Same result for my daughter.
Stacey from New York
This has been my absolute favorite conditoner for years. Was saddened to find out they changed the formula when I bought my last batch. I actually thought it was spoiled and went to smell the rest of the jars, it's that much of a difference. Really not happy with the thinner formulation and different scent. Hope they'll bring the old one back!
Jess from Tampa, FL
This has been one of my favorite leave ins since I discovered it last year; however, I noticed that the formula changed. It is not as thick as it use to be, it's more of a regular conditioner consistency. At first I thought maybe this was a mistake, returned it only to see that the next one I purchased was the exact same. Also the smell is different. I never had issues with it, but I had to stop using it because it does not moisturize my hair like before. Really disappointment because I really loved this product and now I have to find something else.